There is no greater height for a guy my height and than a gal that is petite and here is why.

When she is petite and wants to be comforted she can bury her head in your chest and easily do so. This I’m sure is very comforting for her in that area more than on top of your shoulder but it’s also comforting for me

It’s comforting because my chest is where my heart lies and where my heart lies is where my being solely exists for your heart and I mean your own heart has been the birth place of songs

How about this one?


And I’d give up forever to touch you
‘Cause I know that you feel me somehow
You’re the closest to heaven that I’ll ever be
And I don’t want to go home right now….And I don’t want the world to see me
‘Cause I don’t think that they’d understand
When everything’s meant to be broken
I just want you to know who I am

Goo Goo Dolls


You can take my heart, you can take my breath When you pry it from my cold, dead chest


Or this one?

Living on a prayer

She says, we’ve got to hold on to what we’ve got
It doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not
We’ve got each other and that’s a lot for love
We’ll give it a shot
Woah, we’re half way there
Woah, livin’ on a prayer
Take my hand, we’ll make it I swear
Woah, livin’ on a prayer
-Bon Jovi
They are all talking about love and how they feel about another person or how they feel about love oneself. All of this resonates not with the mind because you can’t logically explain love, outwit love, you can’t rationalize it, and you can’t outsmart it you can only feel love in its truest form.
I choose to love yes
However don’t come to me and say I love you if you know you’re hurting me as saying I love you for hurting is a cold blow back up that you love me and then you can say it.
Also telling me that someone didn’t have a choice that deeply painfully hurt you and they should be allowed to remain in the same way they were beforehand is like rationalizing abuse because you are rationalizing abuse.
Because those are feelings backed up by actions now we will at times hurt each other and wound each other that is true but the above should not. For that is a betrayal that is mostly met by feelings.
That is why she should want to press her head against your chest for that is your soul and your soul should deeply love her in every fashion. It should deeply want to honor her in every way. The Hebrew language uses the word Lord to describe husband but only because he is called to die to his wife, lay his life down for his wife, shed his blood for his wife, get his body heavily scarred for his wife for his wife’s sake not his own.
So who is more important here? The husband or the one that the lord serves and lays his life for every day? I personally say its the lady, because she gets the bigger reward by him dying to himself to serve her.
Few can know my heart in deepness and in understanding because while they may want to it also has to be something I desire as well.
One person said “we are friends, I drive you home, we talk at Church” well yes we do that but friendship is also do you know this persons struggles, do they deeply trust you, when they bring up an issue are you willing to listen to them and not respond until they are done. Do you know them very well and can tell someone a lot about them. And do you want to do these things because it brings you joy and to benefit them? Do you want to even when it’s hard to do so?
he thought we were friends but he didn’t know my fears, my struggles, we hadn’t spent time together outside of church or spent time joking like you can with a dear friend.
There are some that when I meet I can’t wait to see them again whether it’s a man or more importantly the one person I have given my heart to. When I first got to know Her I couldn’t wait to get to know Her more not because I had fallen in love with Her but because I just simply wanted to get to know Her more so as a person.